Cats are graceful, sensitive creatures, and when it comes to handling them, the way you hold them makes all the difference. Some cats may tolerate almost anything, but most will quickly let you know if they’re uncomfortable. Holding your cat the wrong way can lead to stress, fear, or even injury. Done properly, though, it builds trust, strengthens your bond, and makes cuddling a positive experience.
At My Pet World, we believe pet parenting is about knowledge, compassion, and care. That’s why we’ve put together this detailed guide on the right and wrong ways to hold a cat, and why it matters.
Why the Way You Hold a Cat Is Important
Cats are not naturally accustomed to being picked up. Unlike dogs, they often prefer all four paws on the ground. When lifted incorrectly, they may feel trapped or unsafe. Over time, this can affect their trust in you and make handling more difficult.
Here’s why proper holding matters:
At My Pet World, we believe pet parenting is about knowledge, compassion, and care. That’s why we’ve put together this detailed guide on the right and wrong ways to hold a cat, and why it matters.
Why the Way You Hold a Cat Is Important
Cats are not naturally accustomed to being picked up. Unlike dogs, they often prefer all four paws on the ground. When lifted incorrectly, they may feel trapped or unsafe. Over time, this can affect their trust in you and make handling more difficult.
Here’s why proper holding matters:
- Prevents Injury: Incorrect handling can strain your cat’s back, legs, or joints.
- Reduces Stress: A secure hold helps your cat stay calm instead of panicking.
- Strengthens Your Bond: Respecting your cat’s comfort shows trust and love.
- Makes Vet Visits Easier: Cats used to proper handling are less fearful during checkups.
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The Right Way to Hold a Cat
When done properly, holding your cat should feel natural, balanced, and secure. Follow these steps:
1. Approach Calmly and Slowly
Cats don’t like surprises. Kneel or sit at their level, let them sniff your hand, and speak softly before picking them up. This reduces their anxiety.
2. Support Both the Front and Back
Place one hand under your cat’s chest, just behind the front legs. With your other hand, gently scoop under the hindquarters. This ensures even support so your cat doesn’t feel like they’re dangling.
3. Hold Close to Your Body
Bring your cat against your chest or shoulder. The closer they are to you, the more secure they feel, almost like a protective hug.
4. Watch for Comfort Signals
Relaxed paws, slow blinks, and a calm tail mean your cat is comfortable. If they start squirming, meowing sharply, or flicking their tail, it’s time to gently set them down.
The Wrong Ways to Hold a Cat (and Why They’re Harmful)
Understanding what not to do is just as important. Here are the most common mistakes pet parents make — and why they should be avoided:
❌ Lifting by the Scruff
Mother cats carry kittens this way, but adult cats are too heavy. Scruffing can cause pain, fear, and long-term stress.
❌ Holding Only Under the Armpits
Dangling your cat by the front legs with no support under the back legs is uncomfortable and puts pressure on their spine and shoulders.
❌ Cradling Like a Baby (Belly-Up)
Some cats tolerate this, but most feel vulnerable when placed on their back. It exposes their stomach, which many cats guard instinctively.
❌ Squeezing Too Tightly
Cats need to feel secure, not trapped. Holding too firmly can make them panic, scratch, or bite.
❌ Chasing and Forcing
If your cat runs away when you try to pick them up, chasing will only increase fear. Instead, wait until they come to you.
👉 Want a quick visual guide? Check out our Instagram post on the right and wrong ways to hold your cat for clear examples you can follow.
Tips for Making Holding a Positive Experience
- Start Small: Practice short holds and gradually increase time.
- Reward Calm Behavior: Offer treats or gentle petting after being held.
- Know Your Cat’s Personality: Some cats love cuddles, others prefer brief handling. Respecting their limits builds trust.
- Create a Safe Environment: Quiet surroundings make handling less stressful.
Holding with Care
Holding your cat the right way isn’t just about avoiding scratches; it’s about showing respect, care, and understanding. Every cat is unique, and with patience, you’ll find the approach that makes your furry friend feel safe and loved.
Whether you’re a new pet parent or an experienced one, mastering this simple skill can transform your bond.
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